What Ifa Says About Compatibility When Love Fails?
- Ogunderin Temple
- May 21
- 1 min read

We often ask Ifa for guidance in relationships: “Baba, is this person for me?” When the Odu reveals compatibility, we rejoice. But what happens when the relationship still falls apart?
Let’s be clear compatibility does not guarantee success.
Ifa reveals potential. It gives you the map. But the walk? That’s up to the two of you.
Sometimes, a person is compatible spiritually, but emotionally immature. Sometimes the timing is wrong. And other times, you outgrow each other while still honoring the connection.
Odu like "Otura Meji" and "Irete Ogunda" speak about how even aligned destinies can be disrupted by ego, lies, and spiritual negligence.
So, when love fails, ask yourself:
- Did we honor our individual Ori?
- Did we make the sacrifices Ifa prescribed?
- Did we confuse spiritual alignment with emotional readiness?
Ifa teaches accountability, not fantasy. The divine does its part. You must do yours..
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Reminding us it takes work for both parties to make any type of relationship work and not making Ifa a crutch I love it!
IFA has a lot of wisdom it is up to us as the people to heed and apply his wisdoms to our life and relationship IWA is more than a slogan it's a way of life.
This was powerful. Especially highlighting that even when Odu falls it is not just a take and run but there is work! Sometimes there are building blocks needed before the message comes to pass 💛
Aboru Aboye Abosise! This was a great read! It definitely gives new perspective to those connections. May we do our part to always seek consultation and keep Ifa at the center of our relationships.